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Laughter and tears

For many people, laughter and tears are polar opposites. One is synonymous with happiness, the other with sorrow.

I’m living both intensely this week as I lead programs (conferences and workshops) with wonderful groups and laugh my heart out, and as I learn one after the other of the deaths of two very dear friends… I cry my eyes out… and I’m filled with gratitude for these people who believed in the great value of laughter and sororité (the French word for Sisterhood)… Two people I loved and who loved me.

Why am I sharing this? I’m not doing this to ask for your sympathy, but rather to tell you that despite the tears, I feel a luminous joy in my heart. It’s not bright, but it’s there. Alive and “settled”. I’m not too surprised, since I believe it was the assiduous practice of intentional laughter that ignited it!

Madan Kataria tells us to laugh in spite of everything… Yeah. Sometimes it’s just not an option – like it is for me right now. You’d tell me to laugh and I’d want to tell you to get lost! (or worse! hahaha)

But if you keep laughing every day, it’s joy that settles in… in spite of everything. See the difference? Not laughter. JOY. And that’s good.

Laughter, joy and health
Your HAHA Sister, Linda

JOYFIT, laughter, cancer, lymph and joy!

My friend Sue Carter Ansari has developed a wonderful concept for a program tailored to breast cancer survivors. Combining intentional laughter, movement, breathing, nutrition and relaxation, JOYFITtm is gaining in popularity. And with good reason! It’s not only effective in chasing away the stress and gloom that often set in permanently, it also encourages healthy lifestyle habits. In fact, JOYFITtm could be used by anyone, but it was originally developed for women with this type of condition.

Did you know that the simple act of laughing has a wonderful effect on the lymphatic system?

It’s really a question of increasing lymphatic flow, which then produces more lymphocytes to kill cancer cells. The lymphatic system is a meshed network of very fine vessels, separate from the blood vessels, but interwoven with the venous system. This network lies beneath the skin and above the muscles, and carries “cleaned” lymphatic fluid back to the vascular system on either side of the neck.

Unlike the cardiac system, where the heart acts as a pump, circulating blood to all parts of the body in a continuous circuit, the lymphatic system is a simple system – without a pump. Lymphatic fluid moves by inertia (very slowly, about 3 beats / minute) in a semicircular fashion. It’s a highly effective efficient cleansing process that forms the backbone of the immune system, as it collects waste from the whole body and cleanses this fluid before returning it to the bloodstream in the neck. Lymph nodes are groups of“cleaning stations” scattered along the lymphatic pathways, mainly in the armpits, neck, chest, abdomen and groin. Lymph nodes specialize in the production of white blood cells (lymphocytes) to clean fluid,antibodies to defend against future predators, and macrophages to eliminate all kinds of unwanted waste.

Although it has no pump to ensure fluid movement, the lymphatic system can be activated manually. The only way to increase flow is to breathe deeply (can you see why laughter can help here?) and move your muscles, which also increases lymph flow since lymph vessels rest on muscles. Lymph can’t move on its own – we have to help it move faster – so more lymphocytes can be produced because more lymph can pass through the lymph nodes where lymphocytes are produced. These lymphocytes attack and kill cancer cells! So we need to move, laugh and breathe.

What could be better than laughter to engage the diaphragm – which then engages the parasympathetic nervous system sending the signal to ALL the body’s systems to relax, producing “feel-good” hormones (endorphins) which in turn send the signal to stress hormones to calm down. And once this signal is received, blood pressure drops, heart rate slows and a general feeling of “happiness in the moment” replaces anxiety and stress – the perfect “domino effect”!

I’ve been working with cancer patients for many years now, and the JOYFIT program using laughter yoga has an extremely positive effect on their health as well as their state of mind. Give it a try! Laughter really is a GREAT medicine with no unwanted side effects! JoyfitProject

Laughter, joy and health

Linda

 

Pleasing is pleasing!

HAHAHA! You should have seen me moments ago.

The contest ended this morning, and I hadn’t had time to make the draw among the participants who had taken the time to answer the few questions in the survey I sent out a few days ago to subscribers to the École newsletter.

So I carefully jotted down numbers corresponding to the number of responses received and placed them on my desk for the “blind” draw. Not names or e-mails, but numbers. Number 15 is out!

I hurried to send a note to the person who had just won to tell her the news. I think I was more excited than she was! Not about the prize itself, but about winning!

Hence the title of this post: Faire plaisir fait plaisir! I knew I was going to make someone happy, and it made me really happy to know that I was going to please her!

Have you ever noticed how, when we go on vacation or take to the road to surprise someone we care about, all the way to our destination we “wriggle” at the idea of the pleasure we’re going to have, the pleasure they’re going to get from seeing us? The IDEA of anticipated pleasure is as exciting as the pleasure itself (sometimes even more so!).

In this case, I knew the person was going to be surprised and happy to have won the prize. And just thinking that she was going to be happy made me happy too!

So… Since shared pleasure is also pleasure, I suggest you try an experiment this month. For the rest of July, every day, think of something that would please someone close to you. It could be a phone call, a surprise visit, a piece of chocolate, picking a flower (where it’s allowed of course!), coffee in bed… Be creative and think about what the other person would like, then DO IT!

Let me know what you’ve done and the results of your little pleasures!

I promise, giving pleasure makes pleasure!!!

And that’s a fact!

Laughter, joy and health

Your HAHA Sister, Linda