And when life doesn’t help us laugh…

Precisely. When life doesn’t help us laugh, what do we do?

I’m sure you’ll understand what I mean when I talk about being thrown for a loop by events. Sometimes it’s hard to just smile. So don’t talk to us about laughing!

And yet, this simple little trick allows you to breathe, to distance yourself from the situation. And by taking a step back, it’s easier to see things differently. Taking a deep breath and “pseudo-laughing” will help you, as it did me, to avoid jumping in with both feet in panic, discouragement, anger…

It’s so simple, yet so effective!

Give it a try!

And that’s a fact!

Laughter, joy and health

Your Sister of Laughter, Linda

Is laughter the best medicine?

Would laughing really be the best medicine?
I’ve always thought it was an excellent ‘medicine’. But the best? I can hear you now… “If SHE doesn’t believe it’s the best, why is she talking so much about it?” HAHAHA!

This morning I was reading an article from 2014 on the Times website. A very interesting article, by the way, and I thought I’d translate it for you and share it here.

So here it is.

Can we say that laughter has real health benefits?

It may not be the best medicine. But laughter is good for you and can even be compared to a good diet and exercise to keep you healthy and disease-free.

This statement is according to Dr. Lee Berk, Associate Professor at Loma Linda University in California, who has been studying the effects of a good laugh on the brain and body for nearly three decades.

According to Berk, your mind, hormonal system and immune system are constantly communicating in ways that influence everything from your mood to your ability to fight disease. Take grief: “Grief induces stress hormones, which inhibit your immune function, which can lead to illness,” he says. Hardly a week goes by without new research linking stress to another major ailment.

Why talk about stress?

“Because laughter seems to cause all the opposite effects of stress,” Berk explains. He says laughter prevents the release of stress hormones like cortisol. It also triggers the production of beneficial neurochemicals such as dopamine, which have all sorts of calming and anti-anxiety benefits. Think of laughter as yin and stress as yang.

Largely due to these anti-stress powers, laughter has been associated with health benefits ranging from lower inflammation levels to improved blood flow, Berk explains. Some research from Western Kentucky University has also drawn attention to the number and activity of “killer cells”, which your immune system deploys to fight disease. “Many of these things also happen when you sleep well, eat well and exercise,” Berk explains. Which explains why he includes laughter with more traditional healthy lifestyle activities.

Berk has even shown that laughter causes a change in the way many neurons in the brain communicate with each other. More specifically, laughter seems to induce “gamma” frequencies, the type of brain waves observed in people who practice meditation assiduously. These gamma waves improve the “synchronization” of your neuronal activity, which enhances recall and memory, Berk explains.

How does it work?

How does laughter accomplish all this? According to Robert Provine, neuroscientist at the University of Maryland, Baltimore, author of Curious Behavior: Yawning, Laughing, Hiccupping, and Beyond, that’s where things get tricky.

Provine calls himself areserved optimist when it comes to the health-enhancing properties of laughter. “One of the challenges of studying laughter is that there are so many factors that trigger it,” explains Provine. “For example, you’re 30 times more likely to laugh with other people than when you’re alone,” he says. “Social relationships and camaraderie are also recognized as positive health-promoting elements. And so this social component of laughter could play an important role in attributing and recognizing the benefits of laughter,” adds Provine.

Here’s why it matters: if you’re asking people to laugh to improve their health, there may be a big difference between laughing at nothing, without stimulation, watching a humorous clip on YouTube or meeting friends who make you laugh, says Provine.

“That doesn’t mean the benefits aren’t real,” he adds. “But it may not be fair to lend all these ‘superpowers’ solely to the act of starting to laugh.”

But even for researchers like Provine who aren’t ready – at least not yet – to make laughter a universal panacea, nobody disputes the great benefits associated with a good laugh. He’s simply challenging science’s current understanding of its data-gathering mechanisms.

“When you laugh, you’re in a happy space,” he says. “That’s always a good thing.”

Translated from You Asked: Does Laughing Have Real Health Benefits? By Markham Heid November 19, 2014

Yes, well. What’s next?

Personally, I know very well that if I have a giggle when I’m with friends or people, I’ll feel tremendously connected to them simply by having shared a giggle together! I’ll feel good.

However, if I start laughing by simply practicing my laughter as an exercise, I also know that I feel really good after a few minutes. I feel more energetic, calmer, more serene, calm, playful and events bother me less.

So laughter may not be the BEST medicine or, as Robert Provine suggests, a universal panacea. But it’s certainly a GREAT remedy for many ills! Whether it’s depression, lack of energy, insomnia or anxiety. It works!

And that’s a fact!

Come on. I’ll just be a few minutes. Look at your watch and do it with me! Let’s go for 5 minutes!

Laughter, joy and health

Linda

Which films make you laugh?

I’m often on the road with passengers (I’m a member of a car-sharing organization) and I always ask them what films – or TV series (or NETFLIX) – made them laugh. Sometimes, I only have one title to jot down in my little “good humor” notebook, and other times, I have several ideas thanks to them!

I’ll never forget the passengers who made the Ottawa-Toronto trip with me! The one at the front mentioned several titles: White Chicks (to which the others reacted by laughing and saying that it was a silly film, but funny too), Qu’est-ce qu’on a fait au bon Dieu?, Détestable moi… and Les Visiteurs!

*The Visitors*! One of the funniest movies I’ve ever seen! For the rest of the ride, every time one of us would say a line out loud, the other would burst out laughing! You can’t imagine how hard we laughed just saying, “Come on, Béa!!! The bottle of Chanel!!!!!!!!!!” “Monsieur Ouille…”We both knew scenes from this movie by heart! The passengers in the back started laughing when they heard us laughing so hard while talking about this movie! The car of good cheer! That’s exactly what we were! Honestly, even though it was a five-hour drive, it felt so short that day!!

So I’m sharing some of my titles with you…

  1. CHIPS: I’ll admit it (guilty pleasure), I laughed a LOT at this movie! It may not be to everyone’s taste, but I laughed out loud a lot of the time!
  2. What have we done to God?: Oh, I really liked that! With Christian Clavier, by the way. A couple marries off their daughters to men of different nationalities and religions. Hello, clichés!
  3. Detestable me: I think you all know what this is! A great animated film that feels good.
  4. Les Visiteurs: starring Jean Reno, Christian Clavier and Valérie Lemercier, among others. One of the funniest films I’ve ever seen! A dream cast and a formidably effective script.
  5. Asterix and Obelix, Mission Cleopatra: MY movie for laughs! My favorite! Every time I watch it (yes! I have the DVD), I start laughing again at something I didn’t remember! With Christian Clavier, Gérard Depardieu, Alain Chabat, Jamel Debbouze, Édouard Baer, Monica Belluci, Gérard Darmon… A great cast! And I know some of his lines by heart!
  6. Brice de Nice: Completely couik this film but the first time I saw it, I laughed out loud! “J’t’ai cassé!!!”
  7. Frankie & Grace: Great Netflix series starring Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin. Two middle-aged women become friends… two very different friends!
  8. Absolutely Fabulous: The series, not the movie… Patsy and Edina made me laugh out loud several times!
  9. Dame Edna: Ah, that’s what I occasionally give myself for a laugh on YouTube! Such an ordinary housewife! (NOT!)
  10. The Graham Norton Show: A unique Englishman! A talk show with a difference! Also on YouTube.

I’m always on the lookout for things that might help me cultivate my sense of humor – I prefer comedies to dramas at certain times of my life (and day!). And when I need it, I have MY LIST! It’s right there in my laughter toolbox.

What would your list of funny movies look like? Or funny shows?

Laughter, joy and health

Linda

P.S. To this list, I would add Lâcher prise, La petite vie, Les Magnifiques, Bridemaids, Les Boys (especially the first film)… and Top Secret!

JOYFIT, laughter, cancer, lymph and joy!

My friend Sue Carter Ansari has developed a wonderful concept for a program tailored to breast cancer survivors. Combining intentional laughter, movement, breathing, nutrition and relaxation, JOYFITtm is gaining in popularity. And with good reason! It’s not only effective in chasing away the stress and gloom that often set in permanently, it also encourages healthy lifestyle habits. In fact, JOYFITtm could be used by anyone, but it was originally developed for women with this type of condition.

Did you know that the simple act of laughing has a wonderful effect on the lymphatic system?

It’s really a question of increasing lymphatic flow, which then produces more lymphocytes to kill cancer cells. The lymphatic system is a meshed network of very fine vessels, separate from the blood vessels, but interwoven with the venous system. This network lies beneath the skin and above the muscles, and carries “cleaned” lymphatic fluid back to the vascular system on either side of the neck.

Unlike the cardiac system, where the heart acts as a pump, circulating blood to all parts of the body in a continuous circuit, the lymphatic system is a simple system – without a pump. Lymphatic fluid moves by inertia (very slowly, about 3 beats / minute) in a semicircular fashion. It’s a highly effective efficient cleansing process that forms the backbone of the immune system, as it collects waste from the whole body and cleanses this fluid before returning it to the bloodstream in the neck. Lymph nodes are groups of“cleaning stations” scattered along the lymphatic pathways, mainly in the armpits, neck, chest, abdomen and groin. Lymph nodes specialize in the production of white blood cells (lymphocytes) to clean fluid,antibodies to defend against future predators, and macrophages to eliminate all kinds of unwanted waste.

Although it has no pump to ensure fluid movement, the lymphatic system can be activated manually. The only way to increase flow is to breathe deeply (can you see why laughter can help here?) and move your muscles, which also increases lymph flow since lymph vessels rest on muscles. Lymph can’t move on its own – we have to help it move faster – so more lymphocytes can be produced because more lymph can pass through the lymph nodes where lymphocytes are produced. These lymphocytes attack and kill cancer cells! So we need to move, laugh and breathe.

What could be better than laughter to engage the diaphragm – which then engages the parasympathetic nervous system sending the signal to ALL the body’s systems to relax, producing “feel-good” hormones (endorphins) which in turn send the signal to stress hormones to calm down. And once this signal is received, blood pressure drops, heart rate slows and a general feeling of “happiness in the moment” replaces anxiety and stress – the perfect “domino effect”!

I’ve been working with cancer patients for many years now, and the JOYFIT program using laughter yoga has an extremely positive effect on their health as well as their state of mind. Give it a try! Laughter really is a GREAT medicine with no unwanted side effects! JoyfitProject

Laughter, joy and health

Linda

 

From the aftermath of my 5/30 laughter challenge in September…

I had received so many messages from people who followed me in my challenge to laugh for 5 minutes a day at noon during the 31 days of last March that I decided to take up another challenge in September! Just in time for the start of the new school year, the resumption of many activities, the end of summer and vacations… Bouhouhou!

Why laugh for 5 minutes? Because that’s the bare minimum to feel the positive effects of laughter.

Why laugh for 30 days? Because it seems to take 21 days to create a new habit in your life… and the following days allow you to install it properly! By doing so, not only have we put a new way of doing things into our day, but we also feel that it has become an essential need!

How does it work? I set up in front of my Facebook Live camera every morning at 9am (Eastern Time – Canada) and I share a few minutes before starting to laugh intentionally for 5 minutes. Believe it or not, my first observation is that it’s sometimes hard to start laughing “at nothing”, but just as hard to stop once the time’s up! For real! And because it’s live, many people come along and laugh “with me” from wherever they are – sometimes at home, sometimes at the office – and let me know they’re laughing by clicking on the laugh icons.

Would you like to read some comments? “I can’t believe how much hearing you laugh helps me trigger mine and once I’m gone, I’m laughing to tears until my stomach hurts!” “That’s my morning ‘good news’! Every day I sit down with you and have a good laugh! Nothing makes me feel happier!” “I was wondering how you managed to laugh like that… I see you’re practicing! It’s inspiring! I’ll do it with you! Thanks!” “I didn’t think we could laugh so much… you’re welcome! I see it now that I’m doing it with you!” “I thought 5 minutes was going to be long! It turned out to be short! And I can’t believe how MUCH BETTER I feel afterwards!”

Would you like to join us? I’ve created a“Défi RIRE 5/30 Laughter Challenge” group, and it’s bilingual!

Not on Facebook, but would you like to take up a challenge with me? I’ve posted all the videos from March on the School’s YouTube channel!

Do it and let me know what happens for you… it takes a few days!

Laughter, joy and health

Linda

Halfway through… halfway through my LAUGHTER challenge

Well…

I have to admit that this challenge is REALLY good for me! I’m like everyone else, and I don’t always feel like laughing. In fact, I’d say that disciplining myself to practice intentional laughter alone “in front of a witness” helps me to avoid getting stuck in the seriousness of certain moments of my day! I even burst out laughing when I read a word that, otherwise and “normally”, wouldn’t have amused me at all! It was as if I felt free of the situation.

And this is exactly what the practice of intentional laughter allows us to do: not to be a prisoner of the situation, but simply to look at it from a different perspective.

If I can do it, you can too!

Okay, I know. You’ll tell me I laugh easily… and it’s increasingly true. But I’m in the same mood as you. I feel down, angry, frustrated, sad, impatient… That’s right! Just like the rest of us! H U M A I N E! That’s what I am!

No one expects a person to be happy and in a good mood all the time. Emotions tell us that something is going on. There’s nothing wrong with that, because they’re there to tell us something. To change a behavior. To take care of a wound. To take care of ourselves.

So I’m as emotional as anyone living this shared human experience.

However, I CHOOSE more often to breathe and take a step back. For my greater happiness!

Give it a try! Let me know how it goes!

Laughter, joy and health

Linda

P.S. if you couldn’t get started with me on FB, head over to the School’s YouTube channel and do the March 2017 challenge. I’ve even created a playlist for you!

My HAPPY Playlist

By popular demand, I’m sharing with you some of my personal selection of “GOOD HUMOR / POSITIVE ENERGY” songs, which I hope will make you want to smile, sing along (even if you sing off-key!) and dance.

I’ve noticed that certain melodies have a huge impact on my state of mind. When I’m not feeling well, listening to something uplifting makes me feel better. You may not know it, but I spend many long hours in the car every year. When I start to feel tired or the traffic becomes stressful, I immediately choose to put on some music to wake me up… or to calm me down!

Here are a few of my best-selling songs!

At the top of my list are Miriam Makeba with Pata Pata
Zucchero Guantanamera
Bedouin Soundclash Walls fall down
Swing Republic Peas and rice (feat Csaki Universal Studios)
Talking Heads This must be the place
Zucchero Baila Sexy
Earth, Wind and Fire September
Pharrell Williams Happy
Asa Broda Ole
Jane Birkin La Gadoue
Real in Rio Theme
Fleetwood Mac Don’t stop thinking about tomorrow La SUPER LIVE!
Grand Corps Malade & John Mamann 5 heures du mat
Bourvil Fruit Salad
Happy 70 birthday Bob!
Bobby McFerrin Don’t worry, be happy
The Bee Gees Stayin’ Alive
Gaetano Veloso Mi Cocodrilo Verde
Joe Dassin Le petit pain au chocolat
Mark Ronson Uptown Funk
Paul Simon You Can Call me Al
Greg Street Good Day
Bossacucanova Bom Dia Rio
Fleetwood Mac Dreams
Chaka Demus & Pliers Twist and Shout
Angelique Kidjo Bomba
Champion Life is Good
Justin Timberlake Can’t Stop That Feeling
Moussu T Il fait Beau
Traveling Wilburies End of the Line
Mary Poppins I Love To Laugh!
Electric Light Orchestra Don’t bring me down
Damien Robitaille Plein d’amour
Louis Armstrong What a Wonderful World
Kiri le Clown Générique (this one’s just to make you smile!)
Caravan Palace Je m’amuse
Richard Desjardins When I love once I love forever
and classics by many
La Compagnie Créole Ça fait rire les oiseaux C’est bon pour le moral
Nana Mouskouri Soleil Soleil
Nat King Cole A bicycle built for 2
Doris Day Que sera sera
The Jungle Book It doesn’t take much to be happy

This is not my complete list… and what’s more, it continues to improve over time.

I’m giving you a great mission, and if you accept it, you might feel happier…

Make your list too! And share your titles with us!
But above all, DANCE! SING! It feels good… and that’s a fact!

Laughter, joy and health
Linda

Stressed about your holiday preparations?

Si vous êtes comme moi (et comme la grande majorité des gens que je connais!), vous vivez un surcroît de stress à partir de la mi-décembre jusqu’au 2 janvier! J’ai préparé cette petite vidéo à notre intention à tous… pour changer le stress de place (en fait, pour en éliminer le plus possible) et pour se faire du bien.

Ce n’est pas très long mais c’est vraiment efficace! Ne réfléchissez pas et faites les exercices avec moi.

Et bon Temps des Fêtes! hahaha!

Rire, joie et santé

Linda

I dare you!

A few months ago, I had the joy of teaching laughter yoga to a wonderful group of a few people who became certified teachers.

During the training, I mentioned that the more we pay attention to what’s laughing around us, the more we SEE opportunities to laugh more every day.

On my return, I had an appointment with a “caregiver”. I can’t tell you what kind of treatment she offers, as I can’t remember the name. I do know, however, that it looks like physiotherapy combined with something else – reiki and massage…

Anyway, she started working on my feet, then worked her way up to my legs. And that’s when I started laughing! Really loud and hearty – I couldn’t stop! She applied pressure to my legs and did it with a certain rhythm…

You guessed it! OUR joyful laughter yoga mantra: HO HO HA HA HA!

I laughed, which made him stop moving. I had to explain to her why I was laughing! She, to keep the rhythm of what she was doing while doing the movement, was mentally telling herself something completely different. You know what I realized at that moment, as I was lying on my stomach receiving an energy treatment? Well, I had a revelation. Nothing less!

You know the movie with the handsome Kevin Costner and the baseball players coming out of his cornfield? Costner heard a voice whispering, “If you build it, they will come”…

So I’m telling you (I can whisper in your ear too HAHA!), if you ask for it, it will come to you! Laughter and joy come to you when you pay attention and ask for it.

Ok.

This is my challenge to you.

Pay attention to everything in your path. See what may be invisible to many, but is so right there in front of your eyes!

See the photo I chose for this column? I took it while crossing a busy intersection in Montreal. No one seemed to notice it, but I DID! And it made me happy.

Are you up to the challenge? Look around you. Listen carefully. Feel passionately…

You’re going to SEE, FEEL and HEAR lots of happy, joyful things all around you… and within you.

And it’s all true! HAHA!

Laughter, joy and health

Linda

Try to smile

You know what I like to do when I’m driving in “heavy” traffic and feel tense? I like to smile.

It’s magical!

Whenever I feel I’m getting impatient or angry, I smile. I may do it mechanically at first, but it’s still a smile.

Simply by smiling, here’s what I’ve observed:

  • I can’t go on being angry when I’ve been smiling for 10 seconds. My brain can’t let me continue to feel this emotion when I smile;
  • I can let other drivers pass me, cut me off or squeeze in front of my car because I feel more open and tolerant;
  • I can even laugh (note that this laugh can sometimes resemble the “wicked wizard’s laugh” at first!).

And finally, most of the time

  • I’m starting to relax… which is a really nice side effect, I’m sure you’ll agree!

So folks, my two cents worth of advice to you is this: SOURCE MORE!

From the moment you get up in the morning, SMILE! And from the moment you start your car, smile! And even when you’re just smiling, you’ll feel better, the people around you will feel better, and you’ll be more tolerant of everything!

And that’s the truth HAHA!

P.S. How do you like me as Linda “Simpson”? It makes me smile!

Laughter, joy and health

Linda